Sunday, May 9, 2010

Happy Mother's Day Super Woman

This Mother's Day I spent time with my daughter Nicole. We went shopping this weekend and had lunch together. Later this evening while talking to a girlfriend I started thinking about my Mother. She passed away Sept. 14, 1996 so it has been a long time since I have had a mother-daughter talk.

One thing I need to make clear here... I was raised by Super Woman. To say my Mom was multi-talented is an under statement. Here is a short list of some of her many talents.
  • The Most onery child that her 9 brothers and sisters ever met, you should hear the stories about the spiders and grasshoppers
  • Owner and chef at her own restaurant
  • Pastry Chef
  • Rebuilt an engine in her car...more than once
  • Owned and managed several Automotive Paint and Body Repair Shops
  • Office Manager at a Funeral Home
  • Make-up artist for dead people
  • Record Holding Race Car Driver
  • Strong Christian
  • Gifted writer
  • Wrote Gospel and Country Western Songs (One C and W song was recorded)
  • Played the guitar and sang - you missed some great get togethers
  • Certified Tax Accountant
  • Owner Spurs and Spirits - Home of The Killer Burger
  • Owner The Diet Shoppe - probably because of all those Killer Burgers
  • Successful Network Marketer, Top 10 Money Earner - taught me everything she knew
  • Breast and bone cancer fighter
  • Daughter, Sister, Wife, Mom, Aunt, Step-mom, Meme (Grandma) and Great Grandma
  • My best friend
  • My Mentor
  • Teacher...Taught all her kids we could do ANYTHING! She had all the answers.
  • Super Woman...I could see the cape even if no one else could
The problem is I don't want to be Super Woman. I don't want to lose myself to trying to be all things and I don't want to know all the answers.

I have done a great many things already in this life. The most important being a mom to two awesome children that have become wonderful well-rounded adults.

What I want to be is a friend people can call on, someone to lean on, a shoulder to cry on. A coach as well as cheerleader for those that need it. A leader that my Mom would be proud of, she did teach me. I want to make a difference in this world....one person at a time. I want to inspire people that need help believing and I want my Mother to know that not only do I Love and Miss My Best Friend....I want to Thank her for bringing me up the way she did. I could not be who I am today if it weren't for you.

I Love You Mom. Happy Mothers Day!
Jacki

2 comments:

  1. I continued being very careful what I eat. I consider food as medicince now and know what I need everyday without counting calories.It is always a half cup cooked oatmeal with fruit and flax seed in the morning. Dinner is at noon and our main meal. It consists of either fish or a boiled egg and rarely goat meat for protein. A variety of vegetables and now fresh salad every day and skim milk. Somtimes I have an apple or pears I canned for dessert. That is all the meals I eat. When hungry later I nibble on a mixture of nuts and dried fruit or eat a bowl of beans.I eat meals on a small 7" plate and if in a bowl I have 1/2 servings in a fruit nappie dish. I also eat a 1 " square of dark chocolate and a glass of tomato everyday. If I want a snack it is air-popped plain popcorn. With this type of meals and extreme exercising I was losing about 3-5 lbs. a week. The month without exercise I lost nothing but neither did I gain.

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